Raise your hand if you are ready for school to start. Are you finding yourself at the end of your patience?
I love my children and the slowness of summertime. I love the freedom to go to the pool, ride bikes, catch fireflies, and the excuse to eat more ice cream than normal. We have had a sweet summer, but as we inch closer to the start of school the inches of my patience are slowly disintegrating.
My Close Knit Kids Are Tried Of One Another
At the beginning of the summer it was so sweet to see my four children reunited. They played well, shared their toys, and encouraged one another. After two months together, I have noticed a large increase in tattling, screaming, and selfishness.
Just yesterday, a dear friend and mentor called me and when I picked up the phone there were children screaming in the background. Last night we came home from church camp and my children were screaming in the driveway.
I Am Tired
You all, I am so tired. I mean how many times can I say my coined momma phrases with a Mary Poppins attitude?
Listening is loving.
Ask a question if you want something instead of demanding it.
If someone asks us to stop we stop.
First is not the worst when we get in the car.
God has given your younger siblings two parents, and you as a sibling have the freedom to not be their parent.
You are playing too rough.
If our brother asks us to eat a piece off the cactus in his room, you don’t have to do it.
I have lost touch with my inner Mary Poppins in the recent days, found myself to be more like Maleficent, and I have wanted to give up.
God Is Not Tired
I was soberly convicted this morning about my impatience and lethargy when it comes to hanging in there with my children for these last few weeks of summer. God has never given up on me in seasons where I have been doing much worse than eating cactus. God is a pursuing God, God is an active God, and God is a patient God.
When we find ourselves tired as parents, we can find everlasting patience in Him.
He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint (Isaiah 40: 29-31).
The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance (2 Peter 3:9).
As I stepped out of my feelings of weariness this morning I refocused on God and His Word. It is a high calling to show my children Jesus, and a great privilege. I am so grateful that God’s mercies are new every morning and today can be the first new day to model repentance and faith to my children.
How Can We Walk Alongside Those Who Are Tired When We Are Tired Ourselves?
First, we repent of our shortcomings and lack of patience with our children and we remind them of the truth that God is a pursuing and patient God.
Then we point our children to truth in God’s Word. I used a short devotional today from Susan Hunt’s Big Truths for Little Kids.
Next we pray. We explain to our children that the kind of love and patience we are asking for is supernatural and cannot be accomplished in human strength. We love simply because God first loved us.
And in a few short hours, we will probably do this all over again. This is perseverance and a testimony of a real an active God to our children.
Hope For Those Who Are Tired
Today, I am thankful for a pursuing God who is teaching me to depend on His patience instead of my dried-up well of human patience. This is a truth I know, but even though I know the truth, as a human, sometimes, I fail to walk in the truth.
God is redeeming His people all the time. We simply need to come to Him. I pray I can show my children more of my life of dependence upon a loving and patient God rather than a worn out mother operating out of a dried-up well of human patience.
God never tires. His mercies are new every morning. His yoke is easy and His burden is light. Great is His faithfulness, even when He needs to remind me of the same thing over and over again.
Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light (Matthew 28-30).