I sat there in the restaurant with my husband and four children praying for the sweet mercy of Jesus to rain down on us so we could enjoy a nice lunch out sans meltdowns.
When the server came to take our order I knew my five year old was going to order some kind of seafood.
He asked for the shrimp.
The waitress asked if he wanted them fried or grilled.
He wanted grilled.
The server then asked if he would like fries or vegetables.
He wanted vegetables.
I sat there amazed. My other two sons only want to eat fries and chicken nuggets and cookies. And dip. Lots of dip. I even saw one of them slurp their dip up the straw from across the table.
I wrinkle my nose when I hear someone saying that homemade baby food makes better eaters.
My first born child is the one who ate only gerber baby food. The non organic kind. I fed him fruits first, not vegetables.
This was exactly what you weren’t supposed to do! But I was a new mom and trying to figure this new little baby out. I did not have time to make homemade baby food.
Everything your supposed to do to create a “good eater” I skipped or did backwards and here he is making great independent choices despite what was on his spoon when he was six months old.
I used to feel tremendous guilt over the store bought baby food. I was ashamed of my mothering and I had visions of my first born growing up to only eat donuts and happy meals.
Eating store bought baby food didn’t mess him up too bad at all. My first born is a great eater. He has been known to go into a panic at bedtime if he realizes I failed to let him have fresh fruit that day and has also been known to request a salad in the drive thru at Wendy’s.
My other two sons, the ones who love fries, chicken nuggets and cookies were fed all organic homemade baby food. Yep. All that hard work of grinding and blending and freezing to start them off on the right foot and they’re the ones slurping the barbecue sauce up their straws.
Same with the diapers. I’ve heard it rumored that cloth diapered children are easier to potty train.
My oldest son wore pampers for every single diaper change until he was twenty-five months. He was potty trained in about two weeks. Even overnight he rarely needed a pull up. He was completely diaper free well before two and a half.
My other two have both worn fuzzi bunz cloth diapers. (Which I love.) However, my three and a half year old still loves to poop in his diaper. He really does. Loves it. He tells me he loves it too.
So I am here to testify that I think our kids are going to be themselves no matter what efforts we go to when they are little.
There are myths that say homemade baby food produces better eaters and cloth diapering makes potty training easier.
It is true both save money. It’s true both are better for our environment. But I wouldn’t give homemade baby food or cloth diapers any more credit than that.
As parents we sometimes hold on too tightly to the latest trend and work ourselves to death grinding out that organic baby food or washing mountains of poopy diapers because we’ve heard the myths.
Our kids are going to be who God made them to be no matter what. One choice is not better than the other. They are just different choices. My gerber baby just ordered a healthier lunch than I did at a restaurant and frequently requests salads at the drive thru at Wendy’s. (I’m thirty and I never go to Wendy’s for their salads.)
Nothing I have done has taught him to eat the way he does. It’s who he is.
If your fretting about the cloth diapers and homemade baby food, forget about it. It is great for saving some money but your child will not be a horrible eater or a delayed potty trainer if you opt for gerber and pampers on your registry instead of the homemade baby food maker and cloth diapering starter kit.
Give yourself grace.
Pampers and gerber are great, healthy, normal choices for babies.
My gerber baby is doing just fine.
My other two, I’m afraid. We need to work on slurping the condiments up the straws thing.
And who knows what my fourth child will be like. She’s been eating gerber thus far because I am just too tired to add one more extra thing to my agenda.
The difference this time around is, she can eat the gerber and I have freedom from my guilt because I know she will be just fine no matter what her first foods might be.
I am praying for the sweet mercy of Jesus she will be potty trained before three and a half. I’m about to lose my mind with potty training my second child.
This post is just based on my experience with my four kids five and under. Your story may be different and that’s okay. Neither choice is better or worse. Just different.
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How funny I found this today! I have been feeling guilty about giving my daughter the pasta gerber pick ups! She loves them though! I always worry if I am doing the right things….Im a first time mom. The guilt is horrible at times. She is happy and healthy, and thats all that should matter! Thanks for this~